Fan Mail Friday #45 | Red Flag Intervention


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Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #45! No jibber-jabber, just a short show where we answer Art of Charm listener mail and give out mini-lessons for the weekend!

In this episode:

  • How can you objectively qualify relationship red flags in your own situation when your people-pleasing tendencies have blurred the current boundaries on which that relationship was founded?
  • How do you build your socializing and friendship skills up when depression has made you take a long hiatus from being around people?
  • To what extent should one allow the workplace to touch one's personal life (especially when one-sided romantic interest pierces the usual veil of professionalism)?
  • They say practice makes perfect -- are you missing out on this practice by not dating casually when you've made a choice to wait until you're more ready to settle down?
  • What advice does a former kidnapping victim have for someone who keeps getting "manjacked?"
  • If you know you're moving to another country soon, is it wrong to lead on "a sure thing" without telling them?
  • How can practicing gratitude change your life forever?
  • Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at!

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